

It’s unfortunate that people still think Brave is a good privacy alternative. Ungoogled-Chromium is a better alternative but also unfortunately requires manual upkeep. The best alternative is to use Mull or LibreWolf currently and some form of abstraction if you’re concerned about security as well.
It does a few techniques depending on the type of network and security obstacles. They posted an article on it that’s interesting.
I’d also check out pangolin or headscale like others recommeded though since you’re already looking to self-host.