You need logs, but I’m certain your OOMKilling the host. Pay less attention to what the VM is doing, and more to what the host is doing. Passing that amount of data through a VM on a host with only 4GB of RAM sounds like it’s destined to fail. Put a hard limit on the memory the VM can use and see if that helps, but I just don’t think you have the resources to manage this in the way you’re attempting.

A better question is: if you’re only running PBS on this machine, why is it in a VM?

1. What do you mean “on the same bridge”? A bridged network is a connection from a virtual adapter through the host machine for network access. Is review these connections to make sure you haven’t done something like duplicate an adapter and attempt to share address space. Also confirm which piece of networking is broke: DNS, ping, using DHCP, default gateway?
2. Pretty sure PBS is advised to NOT be used for targets on the same machine while running in a VM. I’ve seen people with the same issues many times, and it’s because it’s running in a VM and attempting to execute backups on the same instance. It’s supposed to be run a distinctly separate instance itself that can communicate with the clients on all targets.
3. https://www.wundertech.net/installing-jellyfin-on-proxmox/

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

Loldafuq

Removed by mod

Removed by mod

All data and benchmarks would disagree with you. If you find something showing that SMB isn’t slower than the others mentioned, I’d love to see it.

Yeah, one or the other works well depending on how your network is deployed. Example: Tailscale gets whacky when dNAT issues are present, but ZT blasts through.

Sounds like OP is having the opposite issue as you.

I think you’re asking about the Samba share? If it works, there’s no real downside except the speed and general wonkiness of the SMB protocol.

As I would rank the different options:

1. Rsync+SSH would be fastest if you’re sending entire directories and not packaging first. A bit slower if sending huge files.
2. NFS would be fastest if sending prepackaged large files, but overall slower if sending a bunch of smaller files
3. SMB will be slowest in any scenario, but may be easier for you

Maybe give Zerotier a shot. Similar premise as Tailscale, but a simplified NAT and routing implementation.

My overall question though is…why??? If you have access to a VPN, why would you connect to another location to use it when you can just use it from anywhere?

Just empathetic.

If you’ve been running these “for years”, you certainly should know the pitfalls of switching to a brand new distro. Like the exact situation you’re asking about.

You should also know that packages tagged as compatible with another version of any distro won’t harm your current one to just install and find out if it works.

As many other commenters are saying, we don’t know what your problem is, or why you’re here.

BUT THATS NOT WHAT I LIKE TO UUUSSSEEEEE WAAAAHHHHHHHH 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭